This chapter offers the phenomenological observation and theoretical conceptualisation of therapists feelings and coping impulses that appear in the therapy situation with a depressed client. These experiences can be explored without blaming anyone and can be used for the field diagnosis as a description of a depression specific pattern by which the relational field is organized here and now in the clinical situation. The chapter includes a presentation of a research based theoretical model, which can be used by therapists to find orientation in their experiences and inspiration for coping with them when in contact with a depressed client.